Showing posts with label Grandchildren. Show all posts
Showing posts with label Grandchildren. Show all posts

Sunday, December 29, 2013

A Christmas Story

The Dog in the Manger
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What Norman Saw

Merry Christmas Hannah and Abby

A story by Pop Pop – your Grandfather
Terry Davis Christmas 2013

This is a story about a wee little dog who lived long ago and far away in a town named Bethlehem. I don't know what the dog's name was but I am going to call him Norman because you remember Norman before he got sick and died. This Norman was a very tiny dog, nothing like Zee, more the size of Norman or our Dylan. He was the runt of the litter and the rest of his brothers and sisters were much bigger than he was and always pushed him around. The innkeeper and his wife often complained that Norman was useless, more trouble than he was worth, it was just a good thing he didn't eat very much or they would have gotten rid of him in a minute.

The bigger dogs all had work to do, some of them guarded the inn and the stables, most of them helped the shepherds take care of the sheep, kept them from straying. When the shepherds needed to move them to greener pastures the dogs would run around them and nip at the heels of the sheep that were lagging behind or going in the wrong direction. Norman tried helping but when he yapped at a sheep and bit its leg the sheep kicked him back about three feet. He was sore for days. He decided that herding sheep was not something he was good at. The only thing he was good for was chasing the rats out of the stable, and to tell the truth the cats were bigger and faster and killed and ate many more rats than Norman did.

But this night the inn was full. A mean king far away in Rome ordered everyone to travel home to the place where their family lived to be counted and enrolled for the census. The king said he wanted to know how many people he ruled. He probably did want to brag that no other king had a bigger empire than he did, but every one knew the real purpose of the census was to make sure that no one was missed by the the tax collectors.

It was fun having the inn full, there was a big meal on the table and lots of people to drop food on the floor that a little dog could eat. Norman would bark at the guests and chase their children around the courtyard and up and down the halls. Some of the children thought he was a lot of fun, but others were afraid of little yappy dogs and cried to their mothers who complained to the innkeeper, and the innkeeper's wife grabbed little Norman and tossed him out the back door and told him to be useful for once in his life and chase the rats in the stable. That's what he did for a while, even caught one and shook it to death. He tried eating it like the cats did, but the hairy rat tasted nasty to him so he left it for the cats. He got tired of chasing rats and dodging the feet of the big horses and donkeys that travelers had put in the stable so he found the one stall that had no animal tied up in it, lay down in the straw and fell asleep, and this is the story of what Norman saw in his own words.

When I woke up it was dark outside and the animals were all peaceful and some of them had already fallen asleep when there was some commotion in the stable and in comes a donkey, a man and a woman who looked very pregnant. The woman was very upset; it had been a long journey to get here from wherever they lived and they were all very tired, the donkey was exhausted from carrying the woman all that way, she was heavy with the baby she was going to have. The man had walked all the way and he was tired and the woman, well pregnant women are always tired and sometimes cross. She was fussing at her husband:

Joe, you said we were going to stay with your cousin, but we get here and the house was full of other relatives and they said they couldn't make room for us. I noticed they made room for your rich aunt Tilly, thinking they might inherit something from her. So they send us to the inn and the innkeeper says there is no room in the inn. I bet if you had more money they would have found a place for us. Why didn't you accept the last job the Romans offered you? Do you think you are too good to work for the Romans.”

The man says “Mary, do you know what they wanted me to build? A cross, that is what they wanted to pay me to build, a cross on which they would nail up a criminal and leave him to die a painful death. I would never do that no matter how much money they paid me. Suppose it was your son did something wrong and they crucified him. Whoever they wanted to execute was some mother's son. I would have no part of it.” Mary got all teary eyed and said, “Joe – you are a good man, I'm sorry.”

Then Mary saw me and said, “After all this there is a dog in the manger – I was going to use that as a bed for the baby.” Joseph shooed me out of the manger and filled it with nice clean straw and I went into the far corner and went to sleep. Before long the noise woke me up again. First Mary was moaning and telling Joe that the baby was coming, and before long she began to scream. I didn't know what that was all about, I had never seen a person be born, but I have seen momma dogs have puppies and they never made this much fuss, and they might pop out four or five or some times 8 of us without ever being as loud as Mary was being, but when finally she pushed the baby out I saw what she was hollering about. The baby was huge, bigger than me and I'm five winters old. Mary she nursed her baby for a while and talked to him, told him his name was Jesus. That means God will save his people, she said.

I could tell that Mary was absolutely worn out, but every time she put the baby down in the manger he started to cry. I think he was cold. Mary had wrapped him up in a thin little blanket, but the stable was getting awful cold in the middle of the night with the wind blowing out side. Joseph said where is that little dog that was here earlier, so I ran over to where he was, he scooped me up and put me down right next to the Jesus child and said you keep the baby warm and don't let any rats climb up here and nibble at his fingers and nose. He knew I was good at chasing rats, and he knew that dogs were nice and warm because of our body heat and our fur. So I wasn't useless at all, I was good at keeping the baby warm and safe. The little baby stuck his little hands in my fur and I snuggled up close to him and we kept warm and soon he was asleep in the hay. I kept awake to guard him from any of the nasty rats in the stable and Mary and Joseph they went to sleep too.

I thought the rest of the night would be peaceful, but just when everyone had gotten to sleep there was another commotion in the stable and in come a bunch of rough looking men into the stable. They brought a different smell into the stable, they didn't smell like horses and donkeys. Then I remembered trying to herd sheep and how the sheep smelled and I knew they were shepherds 'cause they smelled like their sheep. Dogs have very good noses you know.


The shepherds had a strange and wonderful story to tell. They said they had been out on the hillside with the sheep and suddenly the sky lit up and they heard sweet singing and saw a whole bunch of God's angels and one of the angels said “Do not be afraid for I bring you good news of great joy, for unto you is born this day in the city of David a savior who is Christ the Lord. This is how you will know who he is, he will be wrapped in swaddling clothes and laid in a manger. Then all of the angels began to sing sweetly “Glory to God in the highest, and on earth peace and good will for all people whom God loves.” Well there was Mary's baby lying in a manger swaddled in his blanket. (I'd gone back to my corner when the crowd came in). So the shepherds had found things just like the angel had said. They knelt down and prayed and thanked God that God had visited and redeemed his people (what ever that meant). They went back to their sheep singing as they went the song that the angels sang. I jumped back into the manger to do my job keeping the baby warm, but now I knew he was a very special child.

Mary and Joe held each other and cried and talked to each other about the angels. Mary said remember I told you about the angel Gabriel visiting me before I got pregnant and you didn't believe me until an angel appeared to you in a dream and told you to marry me. Well now the angels have come again and we know this is a very special child. I felt so very proud of myself that I was not useless any more, at least for a few days I had a job to do, to guard and keep this special child warm.

A few days later they left the stable and said that they were going to stay with Joseph's cousin now the census was completed and the other family had gone home. I didn't see them again until Joseph came back to the stable to get his little donkey and he patted my head and rubbed my fur and told me what a special dog I was and wished I could go with them but they had a long and hard journey ahead of them as they went to Egypt to be safe from mean old king Herod.

I never saw the family again and I often wondered what kind of a boy and what kind of a man this baby Jesus would turn out to be.






Monday, December 01, 2008






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We spent Thanksgiving at our daughter's.
in addition to Sabrena and Arthie, Hanna and Abby Arthie's family was there, his parents, his sister and her three children. It was a happy but hectic time with 12 people, including 5 children in one condo.
We had Pasteles, a latin specialty, for the holidays. I had never had them before although I have seen them on a Puerto Rician menu. The Dominican versions seems very similar. Wonderful! Interesting to come home and read a New York Times article about pasteles. link to article

Thursday, October 30, 2008







We traveled to Richmond, VA for Kathleen's ACPE conference; we were gone from October 18-28. We actually spent more time in Sterling Virginia with Sabrena and Arthie and our granddaughters. Getting ready for Halloween we visited a pumpkin patch to pick out their gourds. They had a great time. For more pictures CLICK HERE.

Thursday, August 28, 2008

A Wonderful Vacation
We had a great vacation, spent some time with Sabrena and Arthie and our grandbabies. I haven't uploaded pictures to Flickr.com yet, but will put up a link when I do.
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Most of our time was spent in North Carolina with our friends. We found a builder for our retirement home, and chose a house plan that seemed closest to what we want. We talked with the builder about what changes we want, he said they were all possible and is sending the project to a draftsman. From there he will be able to price out the project, and if it exceeds our budget he said he will suggest where we can cut back.
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The whole thing is very exciting. We retire at the end of January, but do not intend to put our present home on the market during the winter, probably in April. If it sells fairly quickly we would hope to ready to move to NC in May, and that is the builder's goal for completion. (Having built a Church building and rennovated two others I know that construction delays are the norm, not the exception.
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We did do a lot of reading, I will share the list here within the next week and have some comments on the most interesting ones.
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We of course have been watching the Democratic Convention, quite exciting. I am looking forward to Obama's speech tonight.

Wednesday, February 20, 2008

Hannah Celebrates a Second Birthday




We went to our daughter's to celebrate Hannah's Second Birthday last weekend. Beside her parents her sister Abby was there, along with Papa Tony and Mami Myra and cousin Chantel.

Monday, January 07, 2008















Christmas is special with family and friends.

We did arrive on Christmas Day in time to see the girls open their presents, including the ones we brought. Here are more pictures of the grandbabies.

I was interested to receive a shocked note from someone questioning why I posted my astrological sign on this blog; the person said I needed to check my faith. I deleted the email instead or replying, but later thought that if it were not for astrology, the belief that the stars fortold events on earth there would have been no wise men come to visit the Baby Jesus. They were astrologers and a star led them to the one born king of the Jews.

Maybe my critic should check his faith!

Last Friday I reached the age of 65, the beginning of the golden years. I can't say I really feel any differently except it means I will retire in one more year. That is a happy thought.

Wednesday, December 19, 2007


LATE DECEMBER THOUGHTS

First Presbyterian Church has a candlelight communion service on Christmas Eve, always a beautiful and moving service. I never preach, instead I share a Christmas Story; this year I will read Great Joy by Kate DiCamillo. What I do is go to a bookstore and read the new children's Christmas stories, when one brings tears to my eyes that is the one I will read this year.

We will travel on Christmas Day, as early as we can, to be with our family, especially our grandaughters, for Christmas. We will also visit with friends in North Carolina and then return to our daughter's home on the way back to Connecticut. I will be back preaching for Epiphany, Three Kings Day, January 6.



Here are the thoughts I wrote yesterday as first thoughts for the January Newsletter.

We don’t really know the date of Jesus’ birth although it is unlikely that it was in midwinter because that is the one season of year when the shepherds do not abide in the fields keeping watch over their flocks by night. It is widely believed that when the Christians sought a time to celebrate the savior’s birth they chose midwinter because the pagans in whose midst they lived celebrated the solstice, or as the Romans called it the Saturnalia at this time. In many cultures the shortest day of the year of the year is celebrated, with great partying because it marks the date when the days no longer get shorter, but instead begin to lengthen. The return of light and warmth is a time of great joy for those of us who love the warmth of summer, and for those whose livelihood depends on growing crops. It was possible for Christians to celebrate Jesus birth unnoticed at this time of year, their pagan neighbors would have thought that they were joining in the general celebrating and partying going on in honor of the season.

Although the date we celebrate for Christmas may be somewhat arbitrary it seems a wonderful time to celebrate the incarnation of one who is the light of the world. One of the prophesies we read in Advent says: “The people who walked in darkness have seen a great light; those who lived in a land of deep darkness-- on them light has shined.” (Isaiah 9:2) The Gospel of John says: “The true light, which enlightens everyone, was coming into the world. He was in the world, and the world came into being through him; yet the world did not know him. He came to what was his own, and his own people did not accept him. But to all who received him, who believed in his name, he gave power to become children of God, who were born, not of blood or of the will of the flesh or of the will of man, but of God. And the Word became flesh and lived among us... “ (John 1:9-14)

On Christmas Eve we end our service by filling the sanctuary with candlelight as the fire is passed from one to another, and we are invited to carry our light out in the world that we also might shine as lights in the darkness. I believe that it was Father Christopher who said that it is better to light one candle than to curse the darkness. Christmas is only the beginning of the season of light, because we move on to celebrate the revealing of the light of Christ to the Gentiles, then the Baptism of Jesus, and onward with the message about the light that shines in the darkness which the darkness cannot overcome.

My prayer for you as we begin this new year is that the light of Christ may shine in your life bringing you peace and comfort, inspiration and direction, and strength for the journey of life. I also pray that each of us may be at work bringing light to our dark world. St Francis prayed that where there is darkness he might sow light. Let his prayer be a gift to each of us in this season of light.

Lord, make me an instrument of Thy peace;
where there is hatred, let me sow love;
where there is injury, pardon;
where there is doubt, faith;
where there is despair, hope;
where there is darkness, light;
and where there is sadness, joy.
O Divine Master,
grant that I may not so much seek to be consoled as to console;
to be understood, as to understand;
to be loved, as to love;
for it is in giving that we receive,
it is in pardoning that we are pardoned,
and it is in dying that we are born to Eternal Life.


Wednesday, August 29, 2007

I'M BACK - LOOK AT OUR NEW GRANDAUGHTER, Abigail was born July 2, 2007; this picture was taken at 6 weeks.




I know it is more than a month since my last entry, but we have been away to visit our family in Sterling, Virginia and Friends in North Carolina. Here are some pictures that I took. We did lots of reading, lots of loving the grandbabies, and enjoyed the beach on Holden Beach, the shrimp and the relaxed life near the shore of North Carolina.


I am off to Nashville on Friday for an Evangelism Conference and promise to actually write about something when I get back.

Thursday, July 19, 2007

Letty Russell, Family Visit, Picnic and Consultation.



I was much saddened to learn about the death of Letty Russell who has had a tremendous impact on the Presbyterian Church and particularly on the lives of women and LGBT folks. More Light Presbyterians has a nice tribute to her on their website, click here to read this. She served as co-chair of Presbyterian Promise here in this Presbytery for a while and was also active with Love Makes a Family. It was always a pleasure to be in her home for either business or social events.




Last week Kathleen and I had the chance to visit with our family including our newest granddaughter who was born on July 2, 2007. Here are some more pictures of her and her sister.




Last Sunday the Youth of our Church hosted a Picnic on the Church Lawn as a fund raiser for their mission trip to San Antonio, Texas (They leave on Saturday). Here are some more pictures.




And finally, playing catch up after not updating for a while, we had an exciting meeting of our Church leadership on Tuesday night. Twenty three folks attended this beginning event for an 18 month consultation/partnership with our Presbytery to look at the future of First Presbyterian Church, particularly in light of my retirement in a year and a half, and our growing realization that unless some radical changes take place we will have exhausted the unrestricted portion of our endowment in less than ten years. There was a lot of positive energy and hope, and people seemed gratified to hear our Presbytery executive talk about the strengths and the importance of this particular Church in the Capital of the state. (He didn't even mention that we were also the oldest continuously operating Presbyterian Church in the state.)

Monday, July 02, 2007

NEW GRANDAUGHTER


Our new granddaughter Abigail Ann Thormes arrived this morning at 5 AM. She weighed seven pounds five ounces and is 20 incles long. Here is a picture her father sent from his cell phone.
Her sister Hannah Marie also had some pictures taken last week. Click here to view them.

Wednesday, June 20, 2007

We visit the family.

We had an opportunity to travel last weekend to Sterling Virginia to visit with our family there, and particularly to see our now 16 month old Grand daughter Hannah Marie. We took some pictures which you can see.

Hannah is expecting a new baby sister, Abigail Ann on or before July 1. We will be back to see them in the middle of July. The Father's parents will be with them for this birth.

Monday, April 30, 2007


We visited our granddaughter Hannah Marie last weekend and took some pictures. To see more click here.
Of course we got back in time for service on Sunday, and then in the evening went to Hartford Stage to see an impressive presentation of "I Am My Own Wife" at Hartford Stage. I will say more about this in my next post.

Thursday, March 08, 2007

Our beautiful granddaughter Hannah Marie had her first birthday last month. If you would like to see more pictures you may follow This link

Thursday, January 18, 2007


Has it been so long since I have written in this blog? Christmas and time with our family and friends, and then a catch up time, and of course sermons, meetings, a pastor’s column for the newsletter and much more have all seemed more important than writing for an imaginary audience, or does some one read my ramblings? Love to hear from readers if there are any!

The greatest thrill of vacation time (Christmas Day until January 6, the 12 days of Christmas) was being with our 10 month old granddaughter on Christmas Day.

Hannah is an absolute darling, was just beginning to walk a step or two when we were there. Her mother called the day after we left to tell us that she walked all the way down their hall without holding on to anything. If you would like to see more pictures and see for yourself how beautiful she is you can follow the link below.http://new.photos.yahoo.com/album?c=revtdavis@sbcglobal.net&aid=576460762384052456&pid=&wtok=uF71z1StFNPlSvQa.44mNA--&ts=1168530260&.src=ph
We also traveled to North Carolina to spend time with our friends Dennis and Cheryl and were glad to see some of their children and their grandchild who was born the same week as Hannah was along with Kentucky and North Carolina friends and neighbors. We again walked our home site where we will be living in just a little more than two years and walked on the sands of Holden Beach.

I reluctantly went with Kathleen to an outlets mall in Myrtle Beach, but when we got there I ended up buying more clothes for myself than she did.

Arriving back in time to preach and catch up with what is happening at the Church I discovered that in addition to celebrating Dr. Martin Luther King, Jr. day on the 14th we also were having a multicultural dinner. Kathleen contributed 28 barbecued chicken legs and a huge pan of Macaroni and cheese, which all of us enjoyed along with Jamaican meat patties, Scottish Shepherds pie and much more.

The Church is really looking forward to the mission trip to the Mississippi Gulf Coast to work on Hurricane recovery from Katrina. The youth shared their pictures and stories of how much more was still needed when they returned from their summer mission trip. We have 25 members and friends who will be traveling on Valentine’s day to Long Beach, Mississippi. We will spend Mardi Gras in New Orleans and then return to Hartford on Ash Wednesday.

I am going on the trip and the Bishop John Selders will be providing both the music and the message on Sunday, February 18. The Bishop has been with us as a musician before, but this is his first time in the pulpit. I am certain it will be a blessing for everyone; I wish I could be two places at once and be a part of this service to bring to an end the Epiphany season, and to be part of our celebration of Black History Month. Check out Bishop Selders’ biography at www.amistaducc.org/jsbio.htm .